Important Information That Birth Mothers Should Know About Placing A Baby For Adoption

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As a pregnant woman who is considering giving up the baby for adoption, you are undoubtedly facing one of the hardest decisions you'll ever have to make. You probably already know that you have several different types of adoption available to choose from, and giving up a child for adoption does not mean that you will never learn anything about the baby ever again. In order to make the best decision for you, the baby, and any children that you are already parenting, it is crucial to know the following facts.  

Some States Require Open Adoption

As a birth parent, it is easy to assume that you will typically be the one to determine how much access and contact you have with the child. However, the truth is that some states mandate open adoption. That does not mean that it is the only option, but that it must be made available to the parents. One study has documented that 95% of adoptions in the United States are open or semi-open. 

The following states mandate open adoption:

  • California
  • Indiana
  • Nebraska
  • Minnesota
  • Oregon
  • Washington
  • New Mexico                           

Adoption Is Truly A Gift Of Love For Everyone Involved

One common reason for birth parents to place a baby for adoption is the lack of financial means, and another is the fear that a birth mom may not be able to meet her personal or professional goals while raising another child. If you are already parenting one or more children, the financial and personal burden of parenting another child can detract from the limited time you already have with your kids. Therefore, it is important to consider not only your feelings, but all of those who are involved in the matter.

One national survey recently established that adopted children eat dinner with their families more often and are read to more often than if the children stayed with biological parents. In addition, that same survey documented that long-term success for adoptees is also common, as the result of quality medical care and a propensity to meet educational goals. As you can see, many biological families make a sacrifice out of love so that their children have better opportunities. If you are still unsure about your decision, talking with a counselor or another professional may help you sort out your feelings. Check out for more information.

In conclusion, placing a baby for adoption is rarely an easy choice, especially if you are already parenting children. If you think that doing so is an appropriate choice for you and your baby, you will need to consider the above information while making your decision. 


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